No matter how much you contributed, how much you've worked for something, IF you made the slightest mistake, you'll be the bad person FOREVER. Your contributions will NEVER be appreciated or remembered. Maybe this is how the human brain works. People will always remember the bad side and forget about the good deeds that you've done. It's just like the black dot on the white piece of paper theory. You'll always notice the black dot on a white sheet of paper first, and ignore the white part.
On the other note, females are always considered as the complicated set of creatures. We'll stereotype that guys will not hold grudges as much. After two years in university, I've come to realize that it's not entirely true. Most of the backstabbers and two-faced creatures I met here are guys. Yes. GUYS. MALE. BOYS. MEN. Truth be told, sometimes they do scare me. Their ugly words spread like wild dandelions on a wide windy field, even b*tchy girls can't do better than them.
Lesson learnt? Watch out of the people around you. They might just be the person who's talking bulls behind your back.
Love,
Michele
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